BETTER OR WORSE
Strange how easy some females think nothing of being critical, accusing, and complaining about the one they vowed to take for better or worse, in sickness and in health, til death separate them. That sort of ugliness would kill anybody. What would prompt you to think his passion and desire should flourish towards you in that kind of vomitis environment? Fault finding, name dropping, nagging and harassing him until he can hardly see straight. You expect him to rise above your slander...lavish you with gifts, praise, and kindness? WOE WHOA LADY!
You cannot plant weeds and expect delicious fruit to grow. Silence your foolishness, get control of your cold heart and bitter tongue. The very one you resent, disrespect, and treat with contempt is the man that you once could not live without and would do anything for...until the day you changed your mind. You are out of order.
God has designed creation in a certain order. The head and high priest of your household is your husband, not you. You are not the Holy Spirit. You need not attempt to convict him of sin, correct him, or examine him daily. Examine yourself. Realize the spirit in which you are speaking evil of him. Get control of yourself. Seek God instead of trying to fix another human being. Ask God to heal you, change you, and give you some heavenly perspective. So that you build your husband up instead of tearing him down. When you bless him, you bless yourself. When you curse him, you curse yourself.
LOVE COVERS A MULTITUDE of wrongs. Stop keeping a mental list of every mistake he's made. What if God treated you and dealt with you in the way that you so harshly and oppressively deal with him? The mercy you do not give is the mercy you do not get.
God is big enough to discipline, correct, admonish, and get to the very heart of the matter in you and your husband. He most likely will not deal with you both in the same way so stop wasting time trying to figure it all out. Save your energy and commit all things to the One who created you both.
http://www.marshillchurch.org/media/the-peasant-princess/the-little-foxes
'Woe is me' mentality only drives the other person into the desert. It does nothing for your marriage. Please take some time to listen to this Peasant to Princess series and encourage yourself in right thinking. Repent for where you have erred and forget what is behind and press on! Let the LAW OF KINDNESS be in your mouth...honor the Lord with your words and attitudes and choices. There is victory in the Lord.
You cannot plant weeds and expect delicious fruit to grow. Silence your foolishness, get control of your cold heart and bitter tongue. The very one you resent, disrespect, and treat with contempt is the man that you once could not live without and would do anything for...until the day you changed your mind. You are out of order.
God has designed creation in a certain order. The head and high priest of your household is your husband, not you. You are not the Holy Spirit. You need not attempt to convict him of sin, correct him, or examine him daily. Examine yourself. Realize the spirit in which you are speaking evil of him. Get control of yourself. Seek God instead of trying to fix another human being. Ask God to heal you, change you, and give you some heavenly perspective. So that you build your husband up instead of tearing him down. When you bless him, you bless yourself. When you curse him, you curse yourself.
LOVE COVERS A MULTITUDE of wrongs. Stop keeping a mental list of every mistake he's made. What if God treated you and dealt with you in the way that you so harshly and oppressively deal with him? The mercy you do not give is the mercy you do not get.
God is big enough to discipline, correct, admonish, and get to the very heart of the matter in you and your husband. He most likely will not deal with you both in the same way so stop wasting time trying to figure it all out. Save your energy and commit all things to the One who created you both.
http://www.marshillchurch.org/media/the-peasant-princess/the-little-foxes
'Woe is me' mentality only drives the other person into the desert. It does nothing for your marriage. Please take some time to listen to this Peasant to Princess series and encourage yourself in right thinking. Repent for where you have erred and forget what is behind and press on! Let the LAW OF KINDNESS be in your mouth...honor the Lord with your words and attitudes and choices. There is victory in the Lord.
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