WILLINGLY WANT TO
Possible questions to ask yourself if you have concerns that something could be lacking in your marriage: Am I praying? Have I actually asked God to help me walk through this season? Do I cast my cares on the Lord? Do I bring my problems to God? Do I treat my spouse the way I would like to be treated? Am I focusing too much on what the other person is or is not doing? Am I unconcerned with the load that they have to carry? Am I actively doing something to lighten their load daily? Am I considering myself and my own feelings above my spouses? Do I allow critical and accusing thoughts to frequent my mind? Do I make a habit of encouraging and complimenting or do I have a sarcastic insulting tone, resentful, careless or fault-finding attitude? It is very important to examine yourself and pay attention to your own behaviour, habits, and devotion. All the ways that you are will either positively or negatively effect your relationship and the lives of those observing your relationship. Please